[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/muzi-su-dobri\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/muzi-su-dobri\/","headline":"Mu\u017ei s\u00fa dobr\u00ed","name":"Mu\u017ei s\u00fa dobr\u00ed","description":"Mu\u017ei s\u00fa dobr\u00ed. Niektor\u00ed s\u00fa dobr\u00ed nato\u013eko, \u017ee z\u00a0l\u00e1sky odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165aj\u00fa aj to, \u010do by nemali lebo si to o\u00a0\u017ene iba nam\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa! Ona sa im v\u00a0danej","datePublished":"2017-04-09","dateModified":"2017-04-09","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"absat.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280945_w2015_t1496959832.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280945_w2015_t1496959832.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/muzi-su-dobri\/","wordCount":582,"articleBody":"\tMu\u017ei s\u00fa dobr\u00ed. Niektor\u00ed s\u00fa dobr\u00ed nato\u013eko, \u017ee z\u00a0l\u00e1sky odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165aj\u00fa aj to, \u010do by nemali lebo si\tto o\u00a0\u017ene iba nam\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa! Ona sa im v\u00a0danej chv\u00edli tak\u00e1 jav\u00ed. \u017de je schopn\u00e1 im v\u00a0\u017eivote ubli\u017eova\u0165. Ke\u010f jej odpustia – z in\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov, nie kv\u00f4li jej ospravedlneniu a\u00a0vyjadreniam\tsa k\u00a0probl\u00e9mu, nast\u00e1va rozkol. Skreslia si ju v hlave, bud\u00fa ju vidie\u0165 in\u00e1\u010d. Za\u010dn\u00fa ju pova\u017eova\u0165 za in\u00e9ho \u010dloveka. Za niekoho k\u00fdm ona v\u00a0skuto\u010dnosti nie je. A\u00a0to \u010dasto na dlh\u00fd \u010das.\tNamiesto toho, aby jej pokojne aj v\u00a0hneve, povedali vety typu; \u201eToto nem\u00f4\u017ee\u0161\u201c, alebo\u201eUrob veci najbli\u017e\u0161ie mo\u017eno takto\u201c \u010di \u201eJa som to myslel in\u00e1\u010d, nie tak ako si to zjavne pochopila\u201c… Mu\u017ei jej \u201eodpustia\u201c. Odpustia a\u00a0je dokonan\u00e9. Je na svete omyl!\t\u010ealej potom nerie\u0161ia ni\u010d.\tPredsudky, ktor\u00fdch s\u00fa bohu\u017eia\u013e \u010dasto pln\u00ed a\u00a0n\u00e1sledne myln\u00e1 domnienka o\u00a0ich vlastnej\t\u017eene sp\u00f4sobia to, \u017ee sa partneri od seba vzdialia. Odl\u00fa\u010dia sa, aj ke\u010f bud\u00fa \u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0jednom dome spolu. \u201eOd\u00eddu\u201c od seba na tis\u00edce kilometrov a\u00a0mnohokr\u00e1t na nieko\u013eko rokov. Najhor\u0161ie v\u0161ak je to, \u017ee to prich\u00e1dza potichu. Nevedia o tom, aj ke\u010f to obaja c\u00edtia.\tKeby jej len povedal, \u010do si o\u00a0nej skuto\u010dne mysl\u00ed, ona by nemala probl\u00e9m mu svoj postoj vysvetli\u0165. Pravda\u017ee, pokia\u013e je empatick\u00e1, inteligentn\u00e1, \u010destn\u00e1, pokorn\u00e1 a\u00a0z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed jej na l\u00e1ske\ta pravde. Ale toho sa mu\u017e boj\u00ed – \u017ee mu \u017eena vyvr\u00e1ti jeho pravdu a\u00a0\u201enan\u00fati\u201c t\u00fa svoju.\tV\u00a0tom z\u00e1kladnom bode sa takto ve\u013emi chlapi m\u00fdlia. Nedovolia n\u00e1m vysvetli\u0165 omyl,\tlebo sa boja, \u017ee pr\u00eddu o\u00a0svoju silu. A\u00a0nie s\u00fa \u00faprimn\u00ed. Siln\u00fd mu\u017e je v\u0161ak ten, ktor\u00fd za pravdu bojuje a\u00a0za l\u00e1sku sa predsa oplat\u00ed hovori\u0165 pravdu. Citlivo povedan\u00e1 pravda, empatia\ta kon\u0161trukt\u00edvna kritika, to s\u00fa tie k\u013e\u00fa\u010de, ktor\u00e9 mu\u017ei \u010dasto zanedb\u00e1vaj\u00fa.\tPochopme ich, nech oni ch\u00e1pu n\u00e1s\tSama \u017eena sa ve\u013emi \u010duduje ke\u010f nesk\u00f4r zist\u00ed, \u010do sa vlastne stalo. Ke\u010f pravdu vysk\u00fama,\talebo sa s\u00a0mu\u017eom poh\u00e1daj\u00fa. Je prekvapen\u00e1 ako si nie\u010do tak\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017ee jej milovan\u00fd mu\u017e\to\u00a0nej myslie\u0165 a pre\u010do ju klame. Napriek tomu s\u00a0\u0148ou e\u0161te aj zost\u00e1vaj\u00fa v man\u017eelstve, \u010do je pre\t\u0148u ve\u013emi poni\u017euj\u00face. Mu\u017ei vlastne \u017eij\u00fa s\u00a0niek\u00fdm in\u00fdm. S \u201eprotivnou \u017eenou\u201c, ktor\u00fa vn\u00fatorne toleruj\u00fa a\u00a0v\u00a0ist\u00fdch momentoch dokonca nen\u00e1vidia. A\u00a0nikdy jej skuto\u010dne neodpustia, aj ke\u010f ju \u013e\u00fabia. Popri tom ju, nane\u0161\u0165astie \u00faboh\u00ed, dobromyse\u013en\u00ed chlapi, iba nepochopili. A\u00a0nepochopili ani seba. \u00a0\tBolo by vhodn\u00e9 ju po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a\u00a0nie iba \u201epo\u010d\u00fava\u0165\u201c. Mali by jej poveda\u0165, \u010do si myslia. N\u00e1js\u0165 na\tto v\u00a0sebe silu. Ve\u010f \u017eeny na mu\u017eoch miluj\u00fa pr\u00e1ve silu. Ke\u010f v\u0161ak nie je chu\u0165 rie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9m,\ttam kde ch\u00fdba empatia a\u00a0rozum, tam nen\u00e1jdete istotu. Vl\u00e1dne tu \u201ep\u00e1n omyl\u201c.\tA\u00a0kde nie je istota, nikdy neh\u013eadajte l\u00e1sku.\tMu\u017e nech si nikdy nemysl\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eena ho nech\u00e1pe, \u017ee sa ho nesna\u017e\u00ed pochopi\u0165. \u017deny ch\u00e1pu,\ts\u00fa tak\u00e9, maj\u00fa to v\u00a0krvi. Pochopenie je jeden z\u00a0k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov ku spr\u00e1vnej komunik\u00e1ci\u00ed – verb\u00e1lnej aj neverb\u00e1lnej.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mu\u017ei s\u00fa dobr\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.absat.sk\/muzi-su-dobri\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]